Mark,
At least on my 2020 MA, the high side of the bridge solenoid coil had 2 wires on the single coil connection post (the other side of the coil being 12V chassis Ground) - 1 was from the dash switch and 1 was from the KIB relay board in the AC electrical bay (directly below where the Bridge relay is located).
I disconnected the wire from the KIB Board/Silverleaf relay signal and left the dash connection intact. The Bridge solenoid still engages when the dash boost switch is activated. As the dash switch is a momentary contact, as soon as you release the dash boost switch the Bridge relay opens. Given the output of the KIB board is a relay to drive the bridge solenoid you are correct that Siverleaf does not get feedback on the status of the solenoid coil and the coil only cares that it gets 12V+ on that contact - where it comes from is irrelevant.
I have to go back into the SilverLeaf programming (with Omniscope) now that I am home and see why Silver leaf thinks it is still periodically bridging (IE supplying +12V to the bridge solenoid) but I have confirmed that the bridge solenoid is not activating when SL thinks it is sending the demand to it's coil via the KIB board as there is no connection (wire removed leading to the solenoid coil)