Hello!
Here's my dilemma...
I was divorced in September from a vampire. She ignored every single plea I made over the years: to fix the marriage, to end it amicably... I filed for divorce and served her, then messaged her and her family to back it up, then messaged her one more time.
She ignored it.
I was awarded the house and her the Vacation Club that she got behind my back.
Then she denied being served or even signing for papers-under oath.
USPS records and examples of her signatures resulted in the court saying she was indeed served.
Because of a discrepancy in the value of the vacation club (estimated wrongly as same as the home) they opened the decree for property division. So basically now the house is going to be lost.
Lesson here is that the "Justice" System is not about justice. Laws don't count. Rules don't count. Evidence doesn't count. The judge can do what ever she/he wants. Men are highly discriminated against. It's a sham.
Unfortunately, I can't afford a lawyer. They all want a $5,000 retainer fee and will drop you the second that runs out if you can;t refill it. The state doesn't care.
My Ex wife makes almost three times what I do and does have a lawyer. She also has a buig family. One of her sisters is a judge. The husband is an attorney.
I have been handling this on my own and using online consultation to help me make sense of things.
I have been trying to start my businesses for two years and unable to because of this hell.
I illustrate, write, and am moving into some online teaching. Those endeavors do not require much space.
However, I also make leather items like old west gunbelts. I occasionally make props for theater/tv/film. I am also trying to restart my mural business: murals for kids' rooms and businesses that deal with kids.
I am also a certified Off Road Instructor. My Land Cruiser is a project vehicle which will be my teaching and adventure vehicle.
I have two dogs.
There's then the Cowboy Action Shooting stuff.
So I need some space.
My idea is to convert the bedroom into my small workshop.
I don't really want to stay in an RV as my permanent living. I want to get a little plot and put up a little house. Maybe I can live in the RV while I build the little house or wait for a kit, or whatever.
In the end, I would likely travel in my old Land Cruiser with a little camper conversion.
But for now I am in need of a place to live and work from, that I can move around in.
I have my Casita camper and need to sell or trade it in. Problem is that it's a 2024 and I owe about 32,000 on it still. Trading it in will be a loss. I don't know that anyone wants to take over the payments.
The for sure thing is: I will not marry again. One time was horrible enough.