Well, it's been an interesting morning. While this makes me uncomfortable with "change" knowing my home, my address, how to do everything related to my business, everything just in place as it has been for a long time, sometimes change is good, vulnerability leads to good things, but it's on hold.
I had a call with SBI yesterday and a few questions this morning so they called me to ensure I had the right order of events and priorities. The first item on deck is getting RV and toad insurance policies to the Florida address. <insert detonation sounds here>
I emailed my insurance broker, gave him the SBI address, told him I'm changing my domicile to FL and need a policy. I intend to keep my house in VA, not sure why that mattered but it could have been the big misstep but truth is important to minimize risk later. He says he can't get me a policy for a mailbox. I don't live there, underwriters are requiring you are in FL for 3 months out of the year, every year. There are limited providers to get insurance in FL now, Progressive and Nat'l General are his primary two. He won't issue a policy that doesn't meet the requirements and it's setting myself up for problems for when there is a claim and the assessor who's main responsibility is to find ways NOT to grant your claim, will find that you're not actually living where your policy is written, etc. etc. I'm not a fulltimer and he said fulltimers don't have a house they go back to for any length of time during the year.
It all just turned into a furball and something I'm simply not ready for. Already having to commit to being away for 6 months each year to ensure I'm not in VA for 183 days or more is an obligation I'm not ready for. I think it's not the right time for this, for me. I will travel next year as I've done in the past and see how things go, figure out if it's time to sell the house, is it time to transition to fulltiming, and just let things fall into place with a lot of recent change and decisions to be made.
One of my conversations with chatGPT, my therapist, is I don't want to find myself 5 years down the road and not having changed a single thing. While for some that's not a bad thing, I need change and have to figure out what change I want at some point hopefully in the next year.
It's been educational to say the least. It's just too far out of my comfort zone for right now.