I think the difference is you have experience, and the rest of us don't. I am still Leary too, but reading your posts does enlightened me to what is possible.
As with all my tools, there is a time and place to use a tool, and a time where its not practical. Reading your firsthand usage reports tells me that an EV would probably replace my current city car, a Genesis G70. I don't use this for anything extreme, and often trips of less than 200m RT, and it will go for several days without usage. That would probably be a good candidate for an EV, if the lease numbers work out. Right now I lease this car for $500/m for 3 years, 30k miles. I never pay up front or anything at the end, and my budget for the city car is to keep it under $600/m. Prior vehicles have been BMW, but they started to creep outside of that budget.
I don't know anything about how EV's lease, but that will be something to look at.