The rule I was taught is to inflate to the maximum cold pressure stated on the sidewall of the tire, Never more! Do not exceed the load rating published on the side of the tire. Also, keep in mind there is a date code on the tire. Usually, for trailer service, 5 years is the rule of thumb for the safe age limit. Just because the trailer was purchased new, does not mean the tires aren't already 2 or 3 years old. They sit in the warehouse and then sit at the dealer. The age of the tire is more important than the remaining tread on the tire.
Now with that said, I understand for tandem axle trailers the tire load rating is 80% of the published rating on the tire. Thus for a single axle trailer and a tire rating of 1800 lbs, the gross weight of the trailer should not exceed 3600 lbs. [2 x 1800 = 3600] Now if the same tire used on a tandem axle trailer would have a load rating of 1440 lbs. {not 1800} or for the entire trailer a gross load rating of 5760 lbs. [4 x 1440 = 5760]
Agreed, the biggest issue faced is underinflated tires and overloaded trailers. Also, pay attention to the speed rating of the tires and for this rule........never exceed! Otherwise, you become a very underpaid tire test driver.
I consider tire wear as pennies on the dollar whereas an accident due to tire failure could cost you and your family their lives. Not to mention a destroyed trailer and tow vehicle.
(a) never exceed the load rating of the tires
(b) never exceed the speed rating of the tires
(d) never underinflate below the maximum pressure
And if you are concerned about a rough ride, make sure the wheels & tires are balanced just as you do on your tow vehicle. It will prolong tire wear.