I can relate to the OP. The BH hates the sway the Ventana rides versus our old MH. I don't see much difference, but I am not bothered by windy roads or things like that. I would not waste the money if it was me, unless the shocks are bad. Have them checked at FL. MH's are huge, bulky blocks going down the road. Faster is worse, slower can also be worse. Check corner weights as suggested, but I leave 110# around, since I don't want real hot tires when at interstate speeds (65 normally). We have the 3407, so some say shorter is worse as well. My other coach, (2007 Alpine APEX @ 40') was stiffer in turns, but much harsher on rough roads. Nothing is perfect.
Oh, CA roads are now in my opinion the worst in the country. We went from Yuma, AZ last November to Mesquite, NV, taking AZ-95 north and cutting over to CA-95 heading into Searchlight, NV. The CA roads were the worst in the land, as we came from GA (home) to get to Yuma, AZ. Once we hit NV roads improved by 1000%. LA, MS, AL used to have bad roads, but lately they seem to be spending the money on making them better. So CA gets my vote for the worse ones in the land, but then we (me & BH) both agreed, we are never going into or through CA ever again, the state is being ruined by the people running it, and it's sad to say, because one of our most favorite campgrounds was in CA, oh well, life changes.