thanks for the help but I don't think the wife is going to appreciate the loss of her SUV (Honda) and replaced with a pickup! Either way I'll look into a replacement vehicle for a dingy.Don't forget chevrolet pickups. The entire lineup has a trim that is flat towable.
Look for models with 4LO options that are not AWD. Those models will have a section in the manual that describes flat towing. Some years have electric steer boxes that require a disconnect of the battery.