Sorry I was wrong on the open neutral. Here is what I think is the issue
When you connect the 30 amp adapter you’re taking the one 30amp 220 lead and feeding both 50amps legs of the coach. Hard to say without actually checking it ,but if “everything works” with the 30 amp adapter as the op is saying then it really indicates a problem with the pedestal. I say this because the 30 amp adapter is getting 220 to the 50 amp plug if everything works. And if both 50 amp circuits in the coach are getting power from this arrangement , it indicates when the op plugs the 50 amp plug in to the pedestal one of the 220v circuits for the 50 amps is dead. What are your thoughts?